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	<description>musings from a writing wife, mostly about marriage</description>
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		<title>Comment on Amazing Grace and True Love by A Free Spirit</title>
		<link>http://forbetterforworseforlife.wordpress.com/2007/05/21/amazing-grace-and-true-love/#comment-1799</link>
		<dc:creator>A Free Spirit</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 24 Oct 2009 19:42:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>So what does it mean to say that the source of existence (i.e., God) is love?  I would argue the question points to the metaphysics of love rather than simply saying that God creates existence (or, the world) because God loves it.  If you want to check out my post, pls see: http://deligentia.wordpress.com/2009/10/24/deciphering-god-is-love/</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So what does it mean to say that the source of existence (i.e., God) is love?  I would argue the question points to the metaphysics of love rather than simply saying that God creates existence (or, the world) because God loves it.  If you want to check out my post, pls see: <a href="http://deligentia.wordpress.com/2009/10/24/deciphering-god-is-love/" rel="nofollow">http://deligentia.wordpress.com/2009/10/24/deciphering-god-is-love/</a></p>
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		<title>Comment on Vote with your dollars by Audrey</title>
		<link>http://forbetterforworseforlife.wordpress.com/2007/04/27/vote-with-your-dollars/#comment-1796</link>
		<dc:creator>Audrey</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 10 Sep 2009 04:48:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I adore John Schneider. He is the perfect example of how men should be. 6&#039;4&quot; and deeply religious. I was shocked how many really good looking men were on &quot;Smallville&quot;, and he was truly one of them, if not the best. I miss his character on the show. There aren&#039;t many positive role models for boys in the last few decades I&#039;ve been around. We need more people in the world like John. God bless him.
Audrey</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I adore John Schneider. He is the perfect example of how men should be. 6&#8242;4&#8243; and deeply religious. I was shocked how many really good looking men were on &#8220;Smallville&#8221;, and he was truly one of them, if not the best. I miss his character on the show. There aren&#8217;t many positive role models for boys in the last few decades I&#8217;ve been around. We need more people in the world like John. God bless him.<br />
Audrey</p>
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		<title>Comment on I&#8217;m in Love with a Pedometer (WFMW) by Lise</title>
		<link>http://forbetterforworseforlife.wordpress.com/2008/05/13/im-in-love-with-a-pedometer/#comment-1778</link>
		<dc:creator>Lise</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 28 May 2009 22:13:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I am so smiling now.   What an entertaining AND informative piece that was!
Thank you.

For you others: although I haven&#039;t decided to clip my pedometer on, Mandy&#039;s low numbers match with my experience, and I might just compete to see whether I can match them.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am so smiling now.   What an entertaining AND informative piece that was!<br />
Thank you.</p>
<p>For you others: although I haven&#8217;t decided to clip my pedometer on, Mandy&#8217;s low numbers match with my experience, and I might just compete to see whether I can match them.</p>
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		<title>Comment on National Novel Insanity Month by Gidday from NZ</title>
		<link>http://forbetterforworseforlife.wordpress.com/2008/11/03/national-novel-insanity-month/#comment-1770</link>
		<dc:creator>Gidday from NZ</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 01 Apr 2009 23:01:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;...And you know what?  It’s been fun.  As anyone who loves to write will tell you, writing feels like catching your breath after a long run.  Like the first few days after falling in love.  Like seeing someone you adore, when you haven’t seen them in ages and didn’t expect to any time soon.  Like laughing so hard and long and freely that after awhile, you are only laughing at the laughing itself....&quot;

I&#039;m very pleased that you have found such happiness with writing.  

I struggled through 5 years of hell writing down what I had to say and in the end came up with nothing of use but the lesson that I had to do it all differently, if I were to do it at all, which I haven&#039;t. Yet.

The world needs more books that spread the light and love of life regardless of, perhaps even because of, the harder realities.

I came here to read your older posting on a cure for apathy and found your answers and the following discussion to be of a higher understanding than most ideas published on the web.  

Whatever you&#039;re smoking, eating or drinking, keep doing it.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;&#8230;And you know what?  It’s been fun.  As anyone who loves to write will tell you, writing feels like catching your breath after a long run.  Like the first few days after falling in love.  Like seeing someone you adore, when you haven’t seen them in ages and didn’t expect to any time soon.  Like laughing so hard and long and freely that after awhile, you are only laughing at the laughing itself&#8230;.&#8221;</p>
<p>I&#8217;m very pleased that you have found such happiness with writing.  </p>
<p>I struggled through 5 years of hell writing down what I had to say and in the end came up with nothing of use but the lesson that I had to do it all differently, if I were to do it at all, which I haven&#8217;t. Yet.</p>
<p>The world needs more books that spread the light and love of life regardless of, perhaps even because of, the harder realities.</p>
<p>I came here to read your older posting on a cure for apathy and found your answers and the following discussion to be of a higher understanding than most ideas published on the web.  </p>
<p>Whatever you&#8217;re smoking, eating or drinking, keep doing it.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Living the Life by thethoughthole</title>
		<link>http://forbetterforworseforlife.wordpress.com/2009/01/11/living-the-life/#comment-1767</link>
		<dc:creator>thethoughthole</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 11 Jan 2009 18:54:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Now I want to go out and write and be published. lol... your dog thinks the floor is tasty...  I think ... one of our greatest enemies is memory. We forget what we&#039;ve done, experienced, and how far we&#039;ve come... also how far we haven&#039;t come... I guess its an inspirator and a kick in a butt inator.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Now I want to go out and write and be published. lol&#8230; your dog thinks the floor is tasty&#8230;  I think &#8230; one of our greatest enemies is memory. We forget what we&#8217;ve done, experienced, and how far we&#8217;ve come&#8230; also how far we haven&#8217;t come&#8230; I guess its an inspirator and a kick in a butt inator.</p>
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		<title>Comment on No Cure for Apathy by Holden</title>
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		<dc:creator>Holden</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Dec 2008 14:07:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow.... this has been by far the most ineresting discussion I have read all year. 

It would appear that drawing from people&#039;s contribution to this message board, apathy can be traced to a few certain factors.

First up, and I believe that most would agree with me,

Lacking motivation in life
Sometimes it feels as if nothing can truly satisfy us. Work, school, family, friends, relationships? What does it truly matter anyway? Fact is, the only true satisfaction we can receive in life is death. If we acheived true satisfaction in life, there would no longer be any reason for living.
So basically, we can equate being too satisfied with apathy as well.
 
Intelligence
Didn&#039;t Hemingway say that the rarest thing on earth was an intelligent man who was happy? Obviously, the only people who are capable of this jaded emotion known as &quot;happiness&quot; or even &quot;content&quot; or those who don&#039;t hold the mental ability to see the true bleakness of life and the hopelessness of it all.

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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow&#8230;. this has been by far the most ineresting discussion I have read all year. </p>
<p>It would appear that drawing from people&#8217;s contribution to this message board, apathy can be traced to a few certain factors.</p>
<p>First up, and I believe that most would agree with me,</p>
<p>Lacking motivation in life<br />
Sometimes it feels as if nothing can truly satisfy us. Work, school, family, friends, relationships? What does it truly matter anyway? Fact is, the only true satisfaction we can receive in life is death. If we acheived true satisfaction in life, there would no longer be any reason for living.<br />
So basically, we can equate being too satisfied with apathy as well.</p>
<p>Intelligence<br />
Didn&#8217;t Hemingway say that the rarest thing on earth was an intelligent man who was happy? Obviously, the only people who are capable of this jaded emotion known as &#8220;happiness&#8221; or even &#8220;content&#8221; or those who don&#8217;t hold the mental ability to see the true bleakness of life and the hopelessness of it all.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Life with Mr. Puppy by andrealudwig</title>
		<link>http://forbetterforworseforlife.wordpress.com/2008/10/22/life-with-mr-puppy/#comment-1764</link>
		<dc:creator>andrealudwig</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Dec 2008 06:32:59 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Mandy, how is the puppy thing going now?  

I am so happy to read your November posts which tell of you writing 50,000 words plus.  I don&#039;t know how you do it!  
Love Ya, 
   Andrea</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Mandy, how is the puppy thing going now?  </p>
<p>I am so happy to read your November posts which tell of you writing 50,000 words plus.  I don&#8217;t know how you do it!<br />
Love Ya,<br />
   Andrea</p>
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		<title>Comment on No Cure for Apathy by Erick</title>
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		<dc:creator>Erick</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Dec 2008 21:24:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Apathy is a sickness that makes people regret life. Been a person that has suffered from apathy for 37 years. There is no easy answer and there is no easy solution. People that have lived with apathy for most of their lives, live in a semi-depressed life that lacks joy and gain. I think that the cure for apathy is apathy itself. If you make yourself think about it, if you use apathy against itself, it forces the mind to think and see how to get away from it.  I hope this helps
Erick</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Apathy is a sickness that makes people regret life. Been a person that has suffered from apathy for 37 years. There is no easy answer and there is no easy solution. People that have lived with apathy for most of their lives, live in a semi-depressed life that lacks joy and gain. I think that the cure for apathy is apathy itself. If you make yourself think about it, if you use apathy against itself, it forces the mind to think and see how to get away from it.  I hope this helps<br />
Erick</p>
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		<title>Comment on Life with Mr. Puppy by pasturescott</title>
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		<dc:creator>pasturescott</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 10 Dec 2008 01:08:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Man, Mandy, I&#039;s sooo glad you&#039;re still writing.  It&#039;s always refreshing and gives me a chance to bellow and giggle--much needed, mind you!  Oh, the doggie?  Cuter than all get out!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Man, Mandy, I&#8217;s sooo glad you&#8217;re still writing.  It&#8217;s always refreshing and gives me a chance to bellow and giggle&#8211;much needed, mind you!  Oh, the doggie?  Cuter than all get out!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Book Reviews by Kelli Renee</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kelli Renee</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Nov 2008 08:37:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Just to let you know The Secret Life of Bees is a GREAT book!</description>
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